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Veena Kapur in her book- NA TUM JEETEY NA MAIN HAARI (NEITHER YOU WON NOR I LOST)- has written about the sufferings of divorced women in India. She says that-; Divorce goes against Indian culture and traditions.-but practically it is so for the woman only and not the man. 1. It is rare in India for a divorced woman to be taken seriously by men. Their assumption is – that she’s good for a bit of fun, she has no emotions, if she gets hurt again she can handle it, it’s happened to her before. 2. Divorced woman’s living standards drop because the money available has become zero and the expenses have risen. 3. Divorce means that a child’s world falls apart and the two people he/she loves best in the world don’t love each other anymore. This is devastating knowledge for the child who will be afraid, angry, depressed, rebellious or guilty and will act out these emotions in one way or another. 4. Woman dies socially when she is divorced. If she is a social being and sensitive, she is in for a few nasty surprises. Her common friends may choose to invite her ex-spouse and ignore your calls. Ouch, that hurts! 5. If a woman is young and divorcee, all males around her prowls to get sexual favours. This kind of unnecessary attention that she has suddenly getting can make her very uncomfortable. 6. Her self-esteem plunges to new depths. If she hasn’t had the good fortune to get a divorce by mutual consent, then she has been dragged through the divorce courts and undergoes tremendous character assassination. Author says-; A divorced woman is still a human being, and that they cannot be wished away or left lying by the roadside, presumed dead. She has desires still left in her body. The divorced woman is not evil. She can desire companionship and a relationship that works. If you’re ready for another relationship – go out and mingle, live your life and learn to trust again. Read more


